Saturday, May 31, 2014

LITTLE GIRL IN THE PARK

I was recently walking in a public park. A short distance ahead of me was a mom and her three year old daughter. The little girl was holding on to a string attached to a helium filled balloon. All of a sudden, a sharp gust of wind took the balloon from the little girl. I braced myself for some screaming and crying. But no! As the little girl turned to watch her balloon go skyward, she gleefully shouted out, "Wow!" I didn't realize it at the time, but that little girl taught me a life lesson...
Later that same day, I received a phone call from a person with news of an unexpected problem. I felt like  responding with, "Oh no, that's terrible." But the little girl came to mind and I found myself saying, "Wow, that's interesting! How can I Help?" One things for sure - life's always going to present situations that throw us off balance with unexpected problems / challenges. That's a given. What's not preordained is our response. We can choose to be frustrated or fascinated. 

No matter what the situation, a fascinated "Wow!" will always beat a frustrated "Oh,no."

The next time you experience one of life's unexpected gusts, remember the little girl and make it a "Wow!" experience. The "Wow!" response always works. 


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I have a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology am a Certified Master Subconscious Restructuring Counselor and Coach, Behavioral Consultant, Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and NLP Master Practitioner. I've worked in the specialty areas of personal change, optimizing individual potential and behavioral consulting for over 25 years. I served as Director of Psychiatric Rehabilitation for a Regional Mental Health Center, Directed a Certified Academic Institution which trained counselors, taught Combat Medicine and War Time Psychiatry at the School of Healthcare Sciences USAF and presents at seminars and conferences. I am the founder of Life Management Services, a community social service and counseling agency, served 14 years in the U.S. Air Force then went to work in state and community mental health agencies until establishing Life Management Services in 1996.

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