ALONE

We all have those times, even days, when we feel so alone. It seems to be even more intense when we are surrounded by people. Perhaps the lonely times help us appreciate more the fellowship of our friends and family. Sometimes feeling alone helps us to appreciate ourselves more. Regardless of who we are, where we may live, or with whom we may live, there will be times that we feel alone. When I see others who appear to be feeling alone, I like to make eye contact and smile. I like to say something to them that connects us. In those times, I am often reminded of the words to a song I heard my sisters sing when I was young; No man is an island, no man stands alone, Each mans joy is joy to me, Each mans grief is my own. We need one another, so I will defend, Each man as my brother, Each man as my friend.

When we hear or see news reports of people involved in tragedy or great pain, we feel a strange emotional connection. We are all connected. The times of feeling alone can help us remember that truth. Feeling alone can be an experience of cleansing, clearing our thoughts, adjusting our vision, clarifying our priorities and redirecting our focus. No person is an island.